Abandonment to Embodiment

Phase 1: Dissolve

Where the old self comes to die...

Every wound creates an identity.

For men with abandonment, that identity is the boy who learned to hide, perform, collapse, or chase so he wouldn’t be left again.

That boy grew into a man still wearing masks: people-pleasing, sabotaging, numbing, or performing while feeling insecure inside.

In this first phase, we bring those patterns into the light and strip them down to the root.

After going through this phase, you will…

✅ Finally stop repeating the same relationship patterns — no more chasing, collapsing, or pushing love away.
✅ Release the weight of childhood pain so you no longer feel like that abandoned boy running the show.
✅ Break the cycle of self-sabotage that ruins good things before they settle in.
✅ Notice yourself no longer folding into the people-pleasing nice guy just to be accepted.
✅ Feel the first wave of freedom — safe enough to sit in your own body without needing to numb, distract, or run.
✅ Break the cycles of collapsing, people-pleasing, and sabotaging intimacy.

Phase 2: Rebuild

Dissolving the wound creates space.

Now, we rebuild from the ground up - rewiring your nervous system, emotions, and beliefs so you finally feel safe, steady, and strong inside yourself.

This is where survival patterns lose their grip. Where self-sabotage stops running your life. And where you begin to trust yourself.

After going through this phase, you will…

✅ Feel safer in your own body — no longer hijacked by anxiety or hypervigilance.
✅ Trust your decisions instead of spiralling in endless overthinking.
✅ Hold boundaries calmly — no more guilt, collapse, or avoidance.
✅ Feel through emotions and process them healthily instead of exploding or shutting down.
✅ Stop sabotaging love, intimacy, or success because you can finally hold it.
✅ Notice motivation and focus returning as your energy is no longer wasted on fear.
✅ Show up differently in relationships — grounded, steady, clear — and people feel it.
✅ Begin to believe, on a deep level, “I am enough. I am worthy”

 ✅ See new opportunities and connections come into your life because you are no longer blocking them through fear and misalignment.

Phase 3: Embody

Healing means nothing if it stays in your head.
This final phase is about embodiment — living, breathing, and leading from your truth.

You stop working from the wound, and you start living from who you really are, without the masks.

After going through this phase, you will…

✅ Walk into relationships with steady confidence — your partner feels safe to open because you’re no longer collapsing or avoiding.
✅ Attract healthier, more fulfilling connections because you no longer chase or settle — your energy pulls in what matches your truth.
✅ Radiate presence and authenticity  — people feel it before you speak.
✅ Lead your life with clarity and direction — no more drifting, doubting, or outsourcing decisions.
✅ Feel a deep sense of wholeness — no longer split between the abandoned boy and the man you came here to be.
✅ Be trusted by others because you finally trust yourself.
✅ Show up as the man who can hold love, responsibility, and leadership without fear.
✅ Experience intimacy, brotherhood, and connection at a level you didn’t think was possible.

✅  Achieving success in ways that actually matter to you and align with the man you are
✅ Live aligned with your soul — not performing, not pretending, but simply being the man you are.

This is the homecoming.
The end of the old story.
The beginning of the rest of your life.