Meaning every man carries it in some way.

Some just feel its weight more than others.

Sometimes it’s subtle.

Other times it’s dense and heavy.

Either way - it's fuel to the fire.

It’s the hidden driving force behind almost every struggle you face as a man:

• not feeling enough

• anxious attachment

• avoidant attachment

• losing yourself in relationships

• addictive tendencies — porn, sex, alcohol, substances, food, scrolling

• becoming the “nice guy”

• chasing external validation — women, money, status, success

• withdrawing or shutting down

• sabotaging good things — relationships, success, health

• people-pleasing and overgiving

• panic when others pull away

• feeling unworthy

• craving closeness but pushing people away

• difficulty trusting others

• feeling like an outsider

• not being able to handle other people’s emotions

• feeling criticised or attacked during conflict

• numbness or emotional disconnection

• imposter syndrome

• lack of direction or purpose

• passivity

• self-isolation

• overworking

• procrastination

Men all over the world experience this.

Different stories.

Different childhoods.

Different backgrounds.

Same root wound.

Abandonment does not stay in the past,

and it doesn’t go away on its own.

It embeds itself into the core of who you are.

It shapes your thoughts, your emotions, your beliefs,

your behaviours,

and your identity as a whole.

It bleeds into every area of your life -

your relationships, your confidence, your purpose, your friendships, your sense of self.

I know this because I lived it.

But it doesn’t have to be your story forever.

Abandonment usually begins in childhood or your teenage years.

There are many different causes.

Some men can't pinpoint where it came from,

Because it's not always one big moment that creates it.

Often… it’s the little things.

Small ruptures.

Repeated disconnections.

Moments that didn’t look like trauma

but felt like abandonment to a young boy.

Maybe it was unpredictability.

Maybe it was emotional distance.

Maybe it was coldness.

Maybe it was chaos.

Maybe it was a parent who was physically present but emotionally absent.

Maybe it was feeling unseen, unheard, or unimportant.

Maybe it was being shamed, criticised, ignored, or misunderstood.

Sometimes the behaviour was subtle -

but repeated often enough that your system learned:

“Love is unsafe"

"Connection can disappear"

"I’m on my own”

And from that point on…

the boy inside you took over.

He tried to protect you the only way he knew how back then -

by pulling back, withdrawing, chasing, panicking, shutting down, defending, blaming, grasping.

So now, as a grown man…

when the old wound gets triggered,

it’s the boy inside you that reacts.

This is why you distance.

This is why you fear intimacy.

This is why you freeze or shut down.

This is why you sabotage.

This is why you don’t feel good enough.

This is why you chase validation.

Whatever your pattern is, you repeat the same cycles again and again.

Because even though these moments happened years ago…

the wound is still active inside you now.

There is a lot of information out there that it can almost become overwhelming,

different approaches, opinions, modalities…

But I want to share with you exactly what has worked for me and for the hundreds of men that I've helped with healing abandonment.

You need practical tools that will help you deal with this thing at the root.

Tools that create change on a deep core level that you can use straight away.

Healing the Abandonment Wound is built to help you reach the place the wound actually lives..

right at the core.

Within 90 minutes, you will learn how to:

• Break the abandonment loop - Stop the repeated cycles of self-sabotage.
•  Heal the inner boy - Connect with the part of you that is causing you to live in fear and insecurity, and initiate him into manhood. Give him what he needs and become the man you needed when you were younger.
• Heal the nervous system - Go beyond the mind and heal the body so you can stay present, grounded, and authentic, no matter what is happening around you, instead of collapsing, reacting, or withdrawing.
• Access your masculine leadership - Lead in your life and your relationships instead of being reactive and controlled by unconscious behaviour.
• Repair the abandonment wound at its origin - Create internal safety so you stop abandoning yourself. Start showing up as the man who stands firm in his worth and who he is, instead of losing yourself.

When you learn how to feel strong and secure within yourself…

You stop living from the wound,

And start living from the man.

• A clear breakdown of the abandonment wound - Where it comes from, and how to heal it fully.
• The 9 layers of abandonment - I’ll share with you the 9 layers of abandonment so you can create transformation on every level.
• A live guided inner child visual journey - I will guide you through a deep and powerful process that takes you into your subconscious to meet the part of you that experienced the wound. This is where deep and profound healing and shifts can take place.
• A grounding and regulation practice - A somatic exercise to calm your nervous system, soften the abandonment response, and stop the spiral when fear or insecurity takes over. You can use this any time you feel anxious, disconnected, overwhelmed, or triggered.

The world needs more men that are willing to take a step forward and do this work.

And I promise you, it's worth it..

Take a look at the changes other men have made..

When the abandonment wound heals, you stop living as a fractured version of yourself.

You stop waiting for approval and validation.

Your nervous system settles into strength instead of survival.

You move through the world with a calm, grounded confidence that doesn’t shake when someone pulls away, criticises you, or gets close.

You no longer filter your life through fear.

You speak with certainty. You stand in your worth.

You choose relationships, boundaries, and direction from clarity instead of childhood imprints.

The chaos, self-doubt, and emotional instability lose their power.

You don’t collapse. You don’t cling. You don’t run.

You remain solid. Centred. Aligned. Authentic.

And at a deeper level, something sacred happens: the man you were meant to be emerges.

Your instincts sharpen.

Your intuition returns.

Your energy expands.

Your soul stops hiding behind old wounds.

You become a man who trusts himself, honours himself, leads himself.

A man whose presence impacts the world around him,

because you’ve rebuilt yourself from the inside out.

If this speaks to you - secure your spot below.